Christmas is a wonderful time of the year. At least it’s supposed to be, right? And actually, there are many wonderful things about it. My favorite is late on Christmas Eve, following the 11:00 Candlelight service on a cold, starry night when all is still and peaceful and quiet. It reminds me of God’s presence and the peace He came to give to us on that first Christmas night.
It was on one lonely night many years ago that our Savior was born. That’s cause to sing “Joy to the World.” After all, this is Immanuel, God with us. God has come to us so that we will not be left as orphans, as Jesus said, but to be with us until the end of the age.
Christmas time is a time for families and for memories, which is wonderful if your family is intact and you are still making memories. But that very emphasis on families and memories can make this an especially challenging time for those who are separated from loved ones, or who have lost someone important to them. In spite of all the crowds and parties and bustle, and maybe even because of them, a person can find themselves lonely in a crowd, longing for meaning and significant relationships.
It is for such people that Jesus came one lonely night in Bethlehem. Psalm 68:5 says we have “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.” He came to a lonely place among the crowd gathered in Bethlehem for the census. He came into a stable because no one would take Him in, not even for money at the Inn. He came to take your loneliness on Himself, the pain of loss and the ugliness of broken relationships and nailed them to the cross with the rest of the effects of sin. He has come to be alongside you and in you and with you through every season, especially this one.
Christmas isn’t really just about family and memories. It’s about a Savior. It’s about a Father. It’s about an angel announcing to shepherds on a lonely hillside outside Bethlehem, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord,” (Luke 2:10-12).
This Savior has been born for you. He is Jesus. Born one lonely night that you might know what real love is all about. Love Him. Worship Him. He is Christ the Lord.